Christmas only comes once a year,
but weddings are planned every day!
Brides and grooms were gathering to plan their wedding receptions at a new local hotel, and I was invited to provide harp music during the event. Outside was dangerously cold and icy, but inside the atmosphere was warm and romantic — don't you love the elegantly draped ceiling and the pops of color in the flowers and chair ties?
Pretty soon, I’ll be filing away my Christmas music and gearing up for wedding season. I’ll be presenting at a couple of bridal shows in January and am looking forward to meeting this year’s wedding couples.
I love playing for weddings.
It's an honor be a part of such a special celebration.
Photo: Bobby McFall
I love meeting with the couples and talking about their dreams for their weddings, sharing with them what I know about choosing the right wedding music. I love finding out what makes couples unique and enhancing that through the music. Two couples can choose the exact same line-up of music (it's happened!), but the weddings will FEEL completely different because of their style, their personalities, their individuality, the way they love each other.
Many times, couples will ask what music they "have to" have at their weddings. Unless they're having a religious ceremony in a house of worship with strict rules about music selections played during ceremonies, I tell them that this is their chance to develop the soundtrack of the day they're married. They can walk down the aisle to Bach or the Beatles — it’s all about whatever makes them happy! There are, of course, the most-requested wedding songs, like “Bridal March” by Wagner and
“Canon in D” by Pachelbel, which I can play with my eyes closed. Then there are the unique requests from couples (“O Canada” anyone?). There are the sentimental couples (requesting “You Are My Sunshine” in honor of their grandparents). And there are the top-40 lovers (I’ve even played a piece by Sting for a processional).
I’ll admit I’ve had my doubts about some of the selections (did I mention “O Canada?”), but every time the music became perfect for the one-of-a-kind ceremony that unfolded.
Playing at weddings has made me a better harpist in general. I've developed a sense of timing and first-hand knowledge of the power of music on the emotions — skills you can really only learn by doing. And have I been "doing" weddings! I've played at hundreds during the course of my career. The harp is perfect at so many styles of weddings…
Traditional church ceremonies
Informal receptions in rustic barns
made elegant for the occasion
Cocktail hours in gorgeous settings
Weddings at the shore
Summer outdoor weddings in the park
If you’re getting married, or know someone who is, I’d love to talk about playing for the wedding! Want to hear me playing samples of wedding music on my harp? You can visit the
“Weddings” link at my website,
www.amykortuem.com and scroll to the bottom of the page to click on the titles of the songs you want to hear.